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		<title>Why the government should set up a National Adoption Authority</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 08:47:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Francesca</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is our response to government plans to reform adop [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is our response to government plans to reform adoption in the UK. David Cameron has acknowledged there are shortcomings in our care system, fundamentally that it is itself in a chaotic and neglected state that it is unable to make provision for the children it is supposed to care for. What  he will do about it and what he can do about it remains to be seen. He has today said there must be change to a system that takes up to a year to take an at risk child out of care, leaves them in various foster families for a few more and then manages somehow not to find them adoptive parents despite the availability of good and loving homes.</p>
<p>I don’t think we’re any way towards meeting the problem with the reforms it needs. In conversations with both Martin Narey (newly appointed Adoption Czar) and Tim Loughton, the Minister for Children I was impressed with the way both men understood the problem. And I think their intentions are there. However I am not convinced that they are going to generate any substantial mileage in terms of really making any difference – the kind of difference that will change the appalling statistic that out of 4000 children up for adoption in 2010, less than 300 were adopted.</p>
<p>Why is this the case? Again I am loathe to apportion blame on social workers and local authorities as they are merely instruments of the system. It must be said they have used that to make not wholly safe judgements that have tended to be in the interest of keeping families together, rather than finding care and safety for the child. It is the DfE and the government who need to be more accountable though, for their parts in this immoral and often, inhumane circus.</p>
<p>We live in cash strapped times. Councils have always known they can save money, rather a lot of money, by keeping children in care instead of helping them towards adoption. This is going to exacerbate the situation. Sure you can save yourself a bit of money in the short term. And when those neglected kids fail to complete school and end up in prison then what? Because the statistics show us what happens and David Cameron knows it too.</p>
<p>A government that won’t take responsibility for something so fundamental to the well being of children and society is not behaving like a government Government. What we want to see is the government using its weight to enforce any measures with  Local Authorities, Social Workers and Family Courts.</p>
<p>Otherwise Local Authorities will do what they have done before and ignore them and hide behind them. We still won’t have the clarity of direction we need.</p>
<p>That’s why we need a National Adoption Authority which will be able to impose guidelines and ensure there are penalties for not following them. We need much more of course, like a more streamlined process in the family courts that does not aggravate the delays already present in the system. But most of all we need David Cameron to take the lead.</p>
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		<title>Adoption with Humanity&#8217;s letter to the Prime Minister</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 07:02:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Francesca</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the letter which my three-year-old daughter Gai [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the letter which my three-year-old daughter Gaia will deliver today to the Prime Minister with a petition signed by almost 1,400 people supporting the need for<a href="http://francescapolini.com/my-meeting-with-martin-narey-and-why-we-need-a-national-adoption-authority/?doing_wp_cron"><strong> urgent adoption reforms</strong></a> and the setting up of a National Adoption Authority:</p>
<p>Dear Prime Minister,</p>
<p>Ref: Adoption with Humanity’s call for a “National Adoption Authority”</p>
<p>As you are aware, the adoption system in this country is in crisis and in dire need of reform. We were very pleased to hear you speak out on the subject in your speech at the Conservative Party Conference this year, and welcome your support for a reform of the system.</p>
<p>We have recently met with Mr Tim Loughton MP and are grateful for his plans for reform, however we strongly believe that there is an imperative need for the government to go one step further and create a “regulator” – a body which would ensure the proposed reforms are met; one that would be able to deal with everything from the delays and conflicts in the courts, to the Department of Education, as well as the local authorities.</p>
<p>We believe that whilst the government’s proposals are a good start, without taking on the challenges of the lack of authority and unity of purpose of the various parts of the adoption system, the changes will be nothing more than a token effort resembling that of the previous government’s call for reform ten years ago.</p>
<p>This “Regulator” or National Adoption Authority (NAA) as we would suggest, would bring together the social work and justice systems, and create a rational control structure to ensure co-operation between these two parts of the state. This will guarantee that current and future policies are made to happen and their success measured. We believe that only by setting up a National Adoption Authority will the government be able to claim its authority over adoption practices.</p>
<p>The rationale behind calling for an “Authority” is simple. It is, we believe, the only way that the divergent interests and policies from different departments can be brought into harmony and one set of laws, regulations and guidelines be imposed. Rather than being invested in an individual it would bring together, via a controlling mixed representative body, all the best thinking in adoption law and practice.</p>
<p>The NAA will not be a new “quango”, instead it will replace the team within the DoE with a structure that would have authority over local authorities, voluntary adoption agencies and the courts to enforce government policies. To confirm this is successful a much stronger version of the “inspection” function of OFSTED will need to be created as part of the NAA.</p>
<p>We would like to clarify that it is a National Adoption Authority (and not Agency) that we are proposing. Setting up a National Adoption Agency would involve considerable time and expense, and be in danger of replicating the same attitudes and behaviours that are causing problems in the current system.</p>
<p>We have set up a petition on the government site, a copy of which is enclosed, and are calling for support in our campaign.</p>
<p>Please see the enclosed document “Our Proposed Solution to the Adoption Crisis” for a fuller explanation and more details can be found on our website www.adoptionwithhumanity.co.uk.</p>
<p>We thank you for your time in considering our suggestion and hope for your support.</p>
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		<title>Taking our petition to 10 Downing Street</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 11:37:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Francesca</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We have just issued the following press release: &#160; [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have just issued the following press release:</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>ADOPTION REFORMS PETITION TO BE PRESENTED AT 10 DOWNING STREET</strong></p>
<p align="center"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Media invited to attend petition presentation: 13.00 on 31 October, 2011</span></strong></p>
<p>A petition urging the government to form a National Adoption Authority and put the needs of children at the forefront of adoption reforms in the UK is to be presented at 10 Downing Street.</p>
<p>More than 1,200 supporters have<a href="http://epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/18508"><strong> signed a petition</strong></a> launched by <a href="http://79.170.44.151/adoptionwithhumanity.co.uk/"><strong>Adoption with Humanity</strong></a> and firmly believe their proposals will overcome the present failing bureaucratic system which in the last year has seen only 60 babies under the age of one be adopted. It will be delivered to Downing Street on 31 October, the first day of National Adoption Week.</p>
<p>Francesca Polini, who adopted two children from Mexico after being turned down by her local authority in Ealing, London, and whose three-year-old daughter Gaia will present the petition, said: “It is important we take our message straight to the heart of government and we are doing this during National Adoption Week in the hope that our message is heard and listened to.</p>
<p>“We want to see changes implemented as soon as possible which will make a difference to the lives of countless young people who are left to languish in care homes.”</p>
<p>Adoption with Humanity was founded by Francesca, along with Stevan Whitehead and Alex Bemrose, who also both adopted children from overseas after being turned down in the UK for their skin colour and class.</p>
<p>It is proposed that the NAA have control over local authorities and courts and is governed by those involved in the adoption process, including social workers, psychologists, doctors, adoptive parents, birth mothers and adoptees.</p>
<p>One of the NAA key proposals is that a personal budget should be allocated to the child (similar to a statement of special educational needs) and the creation of a separate national budget for the assessment and preparation of potential adopters. Funding for this would come from the reallocation of budgets from the Department of Education and Ofsted.</p>
<p>Francesca says: “These proposals would result in significant improvements, resulting in less time being spent in care and a reduction of wasted time and resources as a result of proper co-ordination between agencies and the courts. Most importantly, more children would be placed in loving and secure homes earlier in their lives.”</p>
<p>Support for the campaign has been given by its patron Baroness King of Bow, Oona King, and courtier dress designer Bruce Oldfield, a former Barnardo’s boy.</p>
<p>Baroness King says: “Like Francesca I am an adoptive parent of two lovely children. And like her, I have experienced the utter frustration, despair and anger at the way the current system operates. This is not apolitical issue: successive governments have failed to solve the problem. So what&#8217;s the problem? Simply that a failing system discourages adoptive parents from adopting, and penalises children born into dysfunctional families.  These are children whose birth parents have usually been abused or neglected.</p>
<p>“Often, the best way out for these most vulnerable children is adoption. But adoption just isn&#8217;t accepted by the system. That&#8217;s why only a few dozen babies were adopted last year. The courts and local authorities need to be held to account, and the government of the day must get a grip.  Our government has a moral duty to get the system working, introduce national procedures, and rid the system of unnecessary obstacles. And there isn&#8217;t a moment to waste. I look forward to helping Francesca in her quest to change things for the better.&#8221;</p>
<p>Bruce Oldfield says: &#8220;Adoption today in the UK is itself dysfunctional. I find it particularly absurd that that colour and culture are preventing children being adopted by families because social workers and local authorities think it won&#8217;t work. I myself was raised by a single white woman, an extraordinary lady who looked after six of us in all. None of us were white. Her love, encouragement and the stable home she gave all of us was far more important than the colour we were born with.</p>
<p>“She is the reason I am who I am today and also the reason I am a couturier. As a dressmaker herself she was my role model. Without her there would be no Bruce Oldfield.  When Francesca told me what she was doing with Adoption With Humanity, I was immediately behind her.</p>
<p>“We need to get back to basics and to what adoption is all about and that is children who need parents and would be parents who have the love to give those children.”</p>
<p>Please contact our Press Officer<a href="http://elleeseymour.com"><strong> Ellee Seymour</strong> </a>on 07939 811961 if you wish to attend.</p>
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		<title>Media gets hot about adoption</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2011 15:45:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Francesca</dc:creator>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the past few days I have been interviewed a number of times regarding the unveiling of new data on the declining number of adoptions in the UK. This is an outrageous situation as we are talking about the lowest levels for a decade, despite both the increased number of children available for adoption and applications from potential adoptive parents. In many cases the parents-in-waiting have passed all their screenings. Sadly, like others before them, they will be made to jump through unnecessary hoops <em>that have nothing to do with protecting the child</em> and are simply the result of bureaucracy gone mad.</p>
<p>Like yesterday, the situation is so dramatic that it will require dramatic intervention.</p>
<p>Too much time has passed and too little has happened. Tony Blair tried to help the issue by setting adoption targets. It helped a little &#8211; but too little to make a real difference and we know targets don’t work.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.timloughton.com/"><strong>Tim Loughton</strong></a> has introduced some new guidelines to allow white parents to adopt non-white children. These rules are being ignored by local authorities and social workers. The reality is the intervention of the government has been too little too late. And let’s face it, there is no compunction on the part of local authorities to follow these passive guidelines. There is no comeback or reinforcement from the government.</p>
<p><a href="http://francescapolini.com/adoption-with-humanity/"><strong>Adoption with Humanity</strong></a> will soon be launching a petition to ask the government to intervene in a way that will require local authorities and others to act. I will let you know more soon. Because our present system is more than stupid, it is immoral. In a world where thousands of children languish in care while there are safe, loving families who want them, we have to do something. And we are going to try our very best.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Sep 2011 12:38:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Francesca</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have spent a whirlwind summer and actively been meeti [&#8230;]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have spent a whirlwind summer and actively been meeting interesting and influential people to support my campaign on much needed adoption reforms in the UK -  and have even appeared on television.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s been a very productive summer, and I shall now begin updating  you with some of my exciting news.</p>
<p>A few weeks ago I met one of the most inspirational mothers ever.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.parliament.uk/biographies/oona-king/25465"><strong>Baroness King of Bow</strong></a>, better known as<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oona_King"><strong> Oona King,</strong></a> is like me an adopter. Only she is mixed raced and hence had the honour of giving two children in this country a loving home.</p>
<p>Like me, Oona is committed to improving the system of adoption here in the UK so that more children are given a proper shot at life.</p>
<p>I was massively pleased at the first thing she said to me: &#8220;I just came back from my summer holiday during which I tend to read the only one book a year I manage to read. This summer it was your <a href="%20http://www.amazon.co.uk/Mexican-Takeaway-Francesca-Polini/dp/1848766270"><strong>book Mexican Takeaway</strong></a> and I loved it.&#8221;</p>
<p>Whilst we discussed how badly damaged the system is and in need of reforms, I must admit it&#8217;s the wonderful mother she is that I was so honoured to meet. She is a committed, passionate, sensitive woman who gives her children all the love they deserve and is prepared to put her head above the parapet to improve the lives of so many others.</p>
<p>Oona suggested becoming the patron for my campaign, <a href="http://francescapolini.com/adoption-with-humanity/"><strong>Adoption With Humanity</strong></a>, and if that becomes reality I will be truly honoured.</p>
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